Family was considered to be very important
during the Joseon Dynasty and most families could trace their lineages back for
many generations, and families were considered to be more of a whole and less
the sum of its parts. Family not only played the role of supporting and
nurturing children and the elderly, (most families were extended) a person’s
family status very much determined their place in society. Cheomin and sangmin
did not receive family names.
An
example of an extended family from the Joseon Dynasty (Chung, 2012)
Elders
were to be treated with great respect often leading to extended families as
homes for elders were very uncommon during the Joseon Dynasty. A special
ceremony called hwangap was held for an elder who had reached the age of 60,
which was basically a birthday party on a grand scale that the family of the
elder often spent as much as they could afford (sometimes more) on. (Very few
people lived to the age of 60 during the Joseon Dynasty) After this ceremony
the elder would be allowed to wear special clothing that designated them as an
elder, and someone to be treated with the utmost respect. this deep reverence
and respect extended even after a person died and the graves of parents, grandparents,
great grandparents, etc. were lovingly tended to by their dependents.
Elders
(modern re-enactment of an outdoor civil service examination) (Sloper, 2013)
The father or oldest male was considered to
be the head of the household and made the main decisions for the family. They
were the person whose income supported the rest of the family, and
traditionally considered to be the stern parent.
Father
(please disregard the camera equipment) (AsianWiki, 2014)
Mother (Confucianism considered the home the domain of most women) (HomestayKorea,
2013)
Children were greatly valued (especially
first born males) and were expected to be respectful to their parents through
following the principles of hyo (filial piety) which consisted not just of
manners, but also supporting parents in their old age, and working to make
themselves the best people they could be.
Children carrying water on their heads (Ah-young, 2008)
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